Have you split up and want to get your ex back? Or you’re on the verge of splitting and want to save your relationship. Then these three tips may have come at just the right time.

Saving a relationship may well seem like hard work, but it should be worth the effort. Especially if you can feel there is still some love left. The next three tips could be just the thing to kick-start you into getting your ex back, or your relationship back on the rails.

1 – Back to the very beginning

Who, or what did you fall in love with? Think about that. What attracted them to you? It’s so easy to slip into a comfort zone when you’ve been together a while.

At the start of your relationship you both probably tried hard to be the person you each fell in love with. You need to recreate that person. That person is the person your ex (or soon to be ex) fell for. Try to be that person again.

2 – Mutual attraction

Attraction is a huge part of any relationship. In fact it’s the only thing that will keep you together. Magnets either attract or repel, depending on which way round you put them. If you aren’t attractive to them you will push them away sooner rather than later.

Attraction can be many things. Not just someone who is pleasing on the eye. Attraction can come in the shape of intelligence or humour. Pinpoint what it was that attracted them to you and recreate it.

3 – Good communication

Communicating is important when you are trying to rescue your relationship. But don’t overdo it. The majority of us shy away from confrontation and possible hurt. If you can keep the conversation light and friendly this will help bring you closer.

When you first met and conversation was easy and smooth. This is what you need to recreate now. You both became closer by having those early conversations. If you can show your partner (or ex) that you can be the person they first met you are well on your way to saving your relationship.

Saving your relationship 101

Seems easy enough on paper right? It’s when we come to do something about it where we hit a brick wall. If we aren’t confident of what we are doing we tend to avoid doing it. I’m guilty of this myself. If you lack the confidence to go forward from here then your chances of getting back together are slim.

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